How to Build Character
by Character First
Character development takes place informally every day. In other words, our character is often formed and developed unintentionally. Daily life is a great place to build character, but we must be careful about letting our character develop by chance, for that places far too much control in the hands of our environment and the people around us.
The goal of Character First is to help individuals and organizations take responsibility for their personal character growth. By applying the following three keys, you can place a new level of intention on your character development.
1. Emphasize
To emphasize good character, simply heighten the awareness. Study character qualities. Read stories of men and women who show good character. Surround yourself with reminders to practice qualities such as responsibility, truthfulness, and compassion. Participate in character-based training opportunities.
The more you think in terms of good character qualities, the easier it becomes to make the qualities part of your life.
2. Recognize
Everyone desires recognition and praise. Furthermore, we all have a natural tendency to do things that result in recognition. Thus, it is critical to look for good character in others and to praise it.
Telling your coworker that he is doing a good job mopping the floor is a good step, but think how much more you could communicate by telling him how thorough he is. Do you think your coworker would rather be known as a “good floor-mopper” or as a “thorough person”? Develop the habit of praising others for good character.
3. Require
Good character is required by raising standards of good character and lowering acceptance of bad behavior. Evaluate your attitudes, words, and actions based on specific qualities. Were you paying attention? Did you convey gratefulness? Were you responsible? Did your actions show truthfulness? Focus on character—or the lack of it—when correcting bad behavior.
Building character is not like building a machine. It cannot be finished in a day, a week or even a year. Although tremendous progress is possible in a short time, building character requires a lifetime of commitment, awareness and effort. Are you ready?
Learn more about Character First training and resources for work, school, and the community. www.characterfirst.com
